Why You Procrastinate Even When You Have No Time
If you are reading or listening to this, you are probably a woman who knows how to get things done. You have a career that asks a lot of you, and you are building a business on the side. On paper, you are the last person anyone would call a "procrastinator." You meet your deadlines at work, you show up for your friends and family, and you handle all of your responsibilities. But maybe there is this one part of your life where things feel a bit stuck.
Think about those moments when you finally have an hour to yourself after a long day at the office. Instead of doing that one big thing for your business, you find yourself checking your email for the tenth time. Or you’re scrolling through social media. Maybe you’re doing small chores around the house that aren't actually urgent, just to feel like you´re doing something productive.
You´re not lazy, and it’s not that you don’t care about your business or your future. It’s just that when you juggle a career and a business, your brain is under massive pressure. Sometimes, you just need a break. To protect us, our brains make us procrastinate. It’s a natural way of slowing us down so we don't burn out.
The reality of the double life
You’ve probably had those evenings where you look at the clock and think, "I have a few hours, I should be able to get so much done." But then you sit down, and you just feel... stuck. You stare at the screen or look for any reason to get up and walk away. This happens because we are asking a lot of ourselves. All day long, we use our energy for our "day job." We are solving problems for other people and focusing on their goals. That takes a massive amount of mental energy.
Then, the moment we log off, we expect ourselves to immediately switch gears and be ready to give it our all in the business. By the time you sit down for your business, your "decision muscle" is worn out. Unlike your day job, where there is usually a clear structure, your business is more like a blank slate.
Everything is a choice. What should I post? What should I name this offer? Where do I even start today? When we’re tired, even a small choice feels like a huge task. This is why we procrastinate. We aren't avoiding the work; we are avoiding the mental effort of deciding what the work should be. To help with this, a helpful strategy can be making those choices ahead of time. If you decide on Sunday what your one big task will be on Tuesday, you don't have to use your evening energy to figure it out. You can just start the task.
Then there is the stress of everything else. When you’re building a business on the side, it’s rarely just the business and the job. There are the household chores, social obligations, and taking care of yourself. So if you’re feeling overwhelmed, it might not be because your business is too hard; it might be because your total workload is too big.
Living in two different worlds
When you are building a business on the side, you are living in two different worlds. In your career, you are established. You’re the expert. But in your business? You might feel like a beginner again. That shift can be really uncomfortable. When we´re used to being "good" at things, it feels vulnerable to do something where the outcome isn't guaranteed. So we might procrastinate because we want to stay in the identity where we feel safe and successful.
This often leads to the "bad job" fear. For many of us, the idea of doing a "bad job" feels like a personal failure. We pride ourselves on the details. We want our business to be something we are truly proud of. So, we wait. We tell ourselves we’ll write that post when we feel more inspired, or start that project when our heads feel clearer. But when you work a demanding job, you rarely feel perfectly rested. So the waiting continues. We end up holding ourselves back because we’re afraid of doing something that isn't our best work. But let's remember: "done" is usually better than "perfect" when you are trying to get closer to the freedom you want.
We also have to talk about the comparison trap. We’ve all done it. We log onto social media and see someone who seems to be "crushing it" while traveling the world. We compare our tired, Tuesday-night energy to their highlight reel. This comparison is a major reason why we feel unable to move forward. But you are likely comparing your "side business" energy to someone who is doing this full-time.
But the thing is, your business doesn't need to look like anyone else's to be successful. When we stop looking at what everyone else is doing, we can focus on what we are doing. We can celebrate our own small wins, which is the only way to keep the momentum going without burning out. If we spend all our time looking at others, we have no energy left to look at ourselves.
Surprisingly, there is also the hidden fear of success. You might think, "If this business actually takes off, how will I handle it alongside my job? Will I have to work even more? Will I lose what little free time I have left?" When we feel this way, we procrastinate as a defense mechanism. We keep the business small and "safe" because we haven't yet designed a lifestyle that can hold our success. We have to trust that as the business grows, we will grow with it. We will learn to set boundaries at work and protect our time. Success doesn't have to mean more burnout; it can mean more freedom to choose how we spend our days.
The Sunday night anxiety
For many women juggling a job and an entrepreneurship journey, Sunday nights are particularly heavy. You look ahead at the work week, and you already feel behind. You see the meetings on your calendar for your day job, and then you see the tasks you want to finish for your business… This stress can lead to procrastination. We spend so much energy worrying about the week ahead that we have no energy left to actually enjoy the Sunday evening we are currently in.
We have to learn how to compartmentalize. Your business isn't a threat to your job, and your job isn't a threat to your business. They are two different parts of your journey. Instead, we can start to see our career as the "investor" in our business. When we shift our perspective from "I have too much to do" to "I am building something for myself," the weight starts to feel a bit more manageable.
Breaking the pattern of busy work
Let's talk about busy work. When you are building a business on the side, it's so easy to fill your time with things that feel like work but don't actually move you forward. Choosing fonts, reorganizing folders, or tweaking your Instagram reel for the fifth time. It feels productive, but it’s often just a way to avoid the bigger, more vulnerable tasks. We hide behind our to-do lists because the "growth work" takes more emotional energy than we have left at the end of the day. If we want to change our lifestyle, we have to start noticing when we are hiding.
Ironically, thinking about the work is often more exhausting than just doing it. When we procrastinate, we aren't actually resting. We’re sitting on the couch, but in the back of our minds, we’re looping through the tasks we haven't finished. The guilt of not starting is actually what burns us out the most.
Every time we plan to work and then we don't, we lose a little bit of trust in ourselves. We start to feel like we’re just "pretending" to be entrepreneurs. But you are more than capable. You just need a different way to handle the overwhelm. We have to stop judging ourselves for being tired. And we have to stop comparing our "after-work" energy to someone else's "full-time" energy.
When we treat ourselves with a bit more kindness, the work feels different. It’s not about doing everything at once. It’s about finding small ways to move forward without making ourselves feel worse. Why did you start this business? Most likely, it wasn't just for the money. It was for the freedom. It was to see what you were capable of outside of your 9-to-5. When we get stuck, we lose the excitement. To fix this, we have to bring the "fun" back into the process. When we approach our business with curiosity instead of pressure, the overwhelm goes away. We start to get more done because we actually want to be there.
Postponing until the weekend
Many of us choose to postpone until the weekend. We tell ourselves, "I’ll just do it all on Saturday." But when Saturday arrives, we feel a strange kind of paralysis. Because we’ve been pushing so hard all week in our 9-5 roles, we desperately need actual rest. But our "entrepreneur" brain is screaming that this is our only chance to make progress.
This conflict creates massive internal friction. You end up sitting on the couch, not really resting because you’re thinking about the work, but not really working because you’re too tired to focus. We have to learn that the weekend isn't just a dumping ground for the tasks we avoided. It’s a time for that exploration and fun we crave. If we don't plan for rest, our brain will take it anyway, usually in the form of procrastination. We have to give ourselves permission to be "off." Ironically, the more we allow ourselves to rest on Saturday, the more energy we usually have for our business on Sunday.
There is also the reality of less time for a social life. Building something on the side can be lonely. Your friends and family might see you as the "successful professional," and they might not understand why you’re spending your evenings working on your business. Sometimes, we procrastinate because we don't want to explain ourselves. But designing your lifestyle means being okay with being a little different for a while. It means finding a community of other women who are also building their ideal lifestyles. When you see that you aren't the only one juggling these two worlds, it becomes much easier to stay focused. You aren't "missing out" on life; you are investing in a version of life that most people only dream about.
Designing a lifestyle where fun comes first
We often think that fun and exploration are things we get to have after the business is successful. We treat them like rewards for years of hard work. But if you want to get more done in less time, you have to bring the fun in now. Procrastination is often a sign that your life has become too serious. It’s a sign that the "to-do list" has crowded out the "to-enjoy list."
When you design a lifestyle, you are looking at the big picture. You are asking: What do I want my Tuesday afternoons to look like? How do I want to feel when I wake up on a Friday? If the answer is "freedom," then we have to start practicing that freedom today. This means setting boundaries at your day job. It means saying no to things that don't align with your goals. And it means being okay with doing "enough" instead of doing "everything."
Overwhelming ourselves with a million tasks is actually a way of avoiding the life we want. It keeps us in the "hustle" and away from the "exploration." A well-rested, happy entrepreneur is much more likely to make good decisions than one who is constantly on the edge of a breakdown.
Designing your way out of the overwhelm
You don't need a complex 10-page planner to move forward. You need simplification. If you feel like you have too much to do, try a "Brain Dump." Get everything out of your head and onto paper, even the small stuff like "buy milk" or "schedule dentist." Once it's there, it stops taking up mental energy in your brain.
What is the one task that, once done, makes everything else easier? When we focus there, we stop the busy work. This is how you design a lifestyle that actually has room for the fun and exploration you've been looking for. It’s not about doing more; it’s about being more intentional. We have to stop thinking that our value is tied to how busy we are. Our value is in the results we create and the life we live.
Since large blocks of time are rare when you work a full-time job, we have to embrace the "15-minute start." Don't wait for a three-hour window that may never come. Almost all of us can find 15 minutes. Tell yourself, "I'm only going to do this for 15 minutes, and then I can stop if I want to." Usually, once the laptop is open and the first sentence is written, the heaviness disappears. And if it doesn't? You still moved 15 minutes closer to your goal than you were yesterday. That is a massive win when you are building a business while working a day job.
It can also be helpful to think about what happens if we stay in this place. What is the cost of not taking that step? When we procrastinate, we are choosing to stay in the life we have right now. We are choosing to keep the 9-to-5 as our only possibility. We are choosing to put off the exploration and the fun we say we want. Sometimes, the thought of staying exactly where we are for another year is more uncomfortable than the thought of doing an "imperfect" job today. When we realize that "later" is actually costing us our freedom, it’s a little easier to take that small step now.
Getting more done in less time without the burnout
The secret to getting more done in less time isn't about working faster, but about working with more focus. Hard-working women often try to do everything at 100%. We want the perfect branding, the perfect website, and the perfect social media presence. But in a side business, you have to learn the art of "B-minus work." Not everything needs to be a masterpiece. Some things just need to be finished.
When you allow yourself to move quickly through the small stuff, you save your energy for the things that really matter. This is how you grow a business without burning out. You work smarter, not harder. And as you see the results of that focus, the urge to procrastinate starts to fade because the work actually feels rewarding instead of just exhausting.
Moving forward with ease
You are building a business on the side because you want a life that feels different. You want a life that is yours. But we can't get to that life by burning ourselves out today. Designing your lifestyle means looking at your energy as a precious resource that you need to protect. It means being intentional with your "Yes." It means prioritizing rest, not as a reward for finishing your work, but as the fuel you need to do the work in the first place.
It also means moving from a place of pressure to a place where you allow yourself to explore. Instead of asking, "How can I do this perfectly?" try asking, "How can I make this feel easier?" or "How can I make this more fun?" You might be surprised at how much more you get done when you are kind to yourself. Success doesn't have to be a struggle. It can be a series of small, intentional steps that lead you exactly where you want to be.
If you feel like you have been stuck for a long time, know that you are not alone. It is very hard to see a way out of the overwhelm when you are right in the middle of it. If you’ve reached a point where you’re tired of procrastinating and you want to find a clear way forward, I’d love to support you.
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So many of us are right there with you, balancing the career, the business on the side, and the desire for a life that feels more like us. You don't need to be perfect to be successful. You don't need to have endless time to build something meaningful. You just need to keep showing up for yourself, one small step at a time. The lifestyle you’re building, the one with the freedom, the exploration, and the fun, starts with the choices you make today. You have everything you need to begin, and you don't have to do it all at once. Just start where you are, with what you have.
